Monday, April 13, 2009

Help i told my best friend i like him?

my best friend and i pretty much have the best of times all the time, he%26#039;s a great person, we go to dinner all the time, he buys me flowers on special occasions, we even celebrate our anniversary of the day we met each other. he%26#039;s really religious, shy, wouldn%26#039;t ever pursue a female because of him being shy. he always makes suggestions of him liking me, but isn%26#039;t completely clear about them. I told him i liked him and his answer was %26quot;i would never tell you if i liked you because i%26#039;m not like that.%26quot; the thing is, he acts the same, he treats me the same (which is great), talks to me the same and everything. but my question is, isn%26#039;t a guy supposed to act different, i mean if he doesn%26#039;t like me back wouldn%26#039;t he be mean and try to push me away, or at least tell me he doesn%26#039;t like me back? what should I do from here? how should i get the answer out of him without pushing too hard? do you think he does have feelings for me?

Help i told my best friend i like him?
From What you have mentioned and his comment _%26quot;i would never tell you if i liked you because i%26#039;m not like that.%26quot; _ I think he has feelings for you. Well you should know that stereo typing GUYS will not work in every single occasion. I can guess that he is very young or very inexperienced. Thats why he does not ask you out. I think you should play the dominant. Go and ask him out but only if you are attracted to him. If not then forget about him and stop hanging out with him. He sounds like an emotional guy. He might start hurting himself. Look You need to do something if he is so shy that he can not ask you out and I am sure that it is the case. Just ask him out make out with him and go to bed with him or whatever you wish. If not then just stop seeing him.





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Reply:why push it, you already do the things that couples do, even thou you are best friends, and you told him how you felt, and he didn%26#039;t reply back. yes most guys will treat you different. but some guys don%26#039;t. just be lucky that you two are still best friends and keep it that way. its better than nothing. good luck.
Reply:if you are sure about his sexuality that he is straight then i think he might like. i don`t know if there is any religion that forbids people from dating so that shouldn`t really be his problem. it could be that he he lacks experience in dating which is the reason he would much rather be with you as a Friend than more. i suggest you tell he that you did not quite understand his responce so u would appreciate it if he could explain what he meant. it is the only way to know otherwise you would drive urself crazy trying to figure it out.
Reply:didn%26#039;t you just ask this ?? he wants to be friends period that%26#039;s all !! you have asked this four times now ..not getting the answers you want???
Reply:Ask him what is he thinking. If he is your best friend he won%26#039;t be afraid to tell you.



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